Senin, 27 Mei 2013

Psychology on Sex

Virginity is not rapture of hymen, though it is called as virginity from cultural side. Virginity is lost of this one by will, even when a girl is raped forcefully she doesn't lose her virginity. Virginity is not rapture of hymen. Hymen can get ruptured by any pressure. Though in medical term or traditional term torn up hymen is considered as loss of virginity but in sprite ruptured hymen or even if a girl is raped can’t be said she lost her virginity. Virginity is only lost when she willfully sex with any male. Even in many cases those males who have short size cannot tear the hymen but she has lost virginity though her hymen was intact after willful sex.
Even if a girl wish to sex with a male but did not go for that due to social restriction is also lost her virginity. Wishing sex with more than one man is also loss of virginity (polygamous will)

In the condition: a person wishing it with two people at the same time is not virgin, she or he lost their purity or virginity, but when you will be engaged with two then it will be your sex drive not love, and about the men is same. That’s why it is said that men don’t have hymen still they can loss their virginity without any trace
Virginity:
  • A person can claim virgin if he never wished for sex without love for marriage, even if you was married you was virgin (windowed or separated)
  • Wish one person for a noble reason is also virgin so we both are virgin
Virginity works in the mind not physical. Virginity is not meant as never sex even god forbid. Suppose you ware raped by five men, you would remain virgin.

A Story in Psychology Class; regarding this virginity and our senses

The teacher was American and very talented. Most of the time students had their classes out of syllabus; the syllabus was to read in dorm not in class. The school is called as convent and the teachers are mostly nuns or fathers. They all were superb in knowledge

One day, the teacher, was a clergyman, asked the students. He said the whole class.
“Hello gentle men! Suppose God set for you two girls and you have to marry or love anyone of them and there is no excuse u have to accept anyone of them. One girl is so pretty.  Never ever been touched by any man, educated, rich and pretty but she always used to think and look at men from hideouts and used to desire sex with them. She used to watch pornography etc, but never even talked with any man”
“Another lady is not impressive looking, she used to work because she was from a poor family. Her associates always used to tease her and flirt her but she never ever gave a damn to them. She never looked at any man with lustful eyes. But one day when she was coming back home, she was been caught by some rowdy boys and was gang-raped”

“Now among these two u have to select one, raise your hands from number 1!”
The entire class raised hand. But there was one who didn’t raise his hand. The teacher was smiling at him.
Then he asked one of the students. “Why you want to marry the number one girl?”
They almost all answered that “Sir, she was young. Her clitoris was responsive so it was her biological response. That’s why she wished for sex.”
“She is intact and pretty” Said others. They were free with their teacher to show their opinion.
But the teacher asked one man that didn’t raise his hand.
“Then you dude, wont you marry?”
He said “Can I be excused on this dull social fiasco?”
“No. You have to. But why you selected the second one? Ha-ha. We had naughty boy!”
The class made joke to the teacher
“He wants someone experienced!”
Ha-ha.. the entire class laughing. But the boy just mumbling,
Hmm.. hmm…
And then astonish said
“They want to marry a lady who lost her virginity many times. Wishing to do and practically doing has a marginal difference. The difference is availability of opportunities. If anyone could provide her chances she would have been screwed up anytime. So she is not virgin even she will not remain virgin after marrying.”
Hey dude! Will you let me stay your home at night when this wife will be in home and you will be out for a tour?
But she was rapped never intended so I am safer you all can come to my home when I am not home. Even when I am by chance is unable to do anything she will never intend to! So she is real virgin.”
The teacher said, “Ok. Go in details!”
 The boy continues
“When she will wish me for sex I will have a happy feelings in me that the only man that is she is inviting for. It is ecstasy none of u will get”
The teacher added,
“Yes the sexual pleasure between two devoted couples and prostitutes are difference like north pole and south pole. Love sex is heaven and fun sex is just addiction.”
Those who never could use a girl can masturbate a lot, no one knows. So you have only to know his purity by his sense.

Academic point
Sexuality prevails everywhere. Sexuality is not copulation. Copulation means making sex in naked. Copulation is action between two mates. Sex is not copulation but a part of it, major part.
People ask, what is your sex?. Male or female

Love comes from sexuality. Even love of any physical or biological people come from sex like mother, father, sister. Sex is related with hormones. Hormone leads to emotion. 

When a lady passes her menstruation she may become Agitated or depressed even sexy for mating. So during the ovulation their sex hormones erect a lot. They become mood of, in decisive, etc. even they sometime can’t be normal at their family. That is why the relation is sex oriented. Such as, Mother loves more her son, father his daughter, opposite sex. Other rage on her son's wife because jealousy. Mother loves her son in law than father, due to sex.

Even you will see baby-boy is playing with his Mr. little, he is having fun. There is sparking J-spot in our amygdale in brain, where sex sparks. It models and differentiate the sexual appeal according to our social structure what we learnt from our childhood like; father to respect, brother to love but without any feelings of copulation. It gets programmed and it always passes through thalamus. But for other boys it is taught to have physical sex through the genitals. So when they get at the age of puberty they hang after it (copulation). For other boys they want copulation by using their organs. 

Why sex on family structure is finished now? The spark for copulation vintage point is brain. Come on copulation stage. Copulation sparks again on amygdale. This amygdale is still a miracle to the scientists. Amygdale is part of brain, mother of emotion, pin of the father on brain steam said amygdale, is bliss of god. Copulation sparks there in different mode. The vital stage of copulation sparking is physical contact with male and female. But this is not the only copulation spark. Copulation sparking is desire for sexual matting, the major of it is mating between two opposite male and female physically through their organs but this sexual copulation for everyone is not sexual mating.

There are different ways to fulfill the copulation sparks for sex : Sexual mating is the first category, lesbianism-homo is the second category, seeing pornography and masturbation is third stage, looking at girls then come home and going to toilet then masturbating remembering her is the forth category. And there are also several ways to fulfill the copulation sparks of sex such as; fingering for girls, smelling female cloths and ejaculating, flirting, making fun with girls, talking sweet, intentionally showing pictures to provoke. People get sexual satisfaction on it. They have sexual spark and they do all of these. For normal people is to stay with one and desire for the best

Don’t flirt! It is sexing, word sex, penis sex, smelling sex, eye sex. one sexologist said if a lady knew how a man undress her and sex with her she would never come out of home.

Case:
The great painter, Picasso used to sex by watching her wife’s picture. She was in front of him.









































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